Are in you the mood for a fantastic unapologetically queer teen rom-com?  

Are in you the mood for a fantastic unapologetically queer teen rom-com?  

Erin's Guide to Kissing Girls is an irresistibly sweet, humorous, queer-positive teenage romcom, the type of movie so many wish they had growing up. Written and Directed by Toronto-based award-winning queer filmmaker, Julianna Notten, Erin’s Guide to Kissing Girl is charming and fun, with stellar performances from the leading trio.   

Erin’s chance to kiss a girl might finally be here, but can she complete this middle school mission without losing

HQ Health Hub - New Toronto Resource

HQ Health Hub - New Toronto Resource

HQ Health Hub is a community‐driven collaboration among 10 Toronto agencies to provide a different, more effective model of health care for Ontario’s gay male, trans and non-binary populations. Despite the health inequities they experience, these groups are not able to access health services that would make a difference in their lives. HQ is the culmination of many years of planning to respond to the complex unmet health needs of these groups.

HQ opened in July of 2022 as an easily accessible, safe, welcoming space for cis guys into guys and all trans and non-binary people regardless of age, race, ethnicity, gender identity, sexual orientation, HIV status, socio-economic status, immigration status, or ability. HQ is a transformational

Promising Updates to WPATH Standards of Care

Promising Updates to WPATH Standards of Care

WPATH, the World Professional Association for Transgender Health, is a worldwide professional association devoted to promoting evidence based health care for trans people. Their Standards of Care (SoC) guide governments, medical associations, and clinics across the world in setting protocols for the psychological, medical, surgical and related care of trans people. In Ontario, the protocols and criteria used by doctors and by the Ministry of Health in funding Gender Confirmation Surgeries (GCS) are largely based on the WPATH SoC V7 (although in Ontario, informed consent access to hormones is supported).

In September, WPATH released the new Standards of Care V8 which has some very exciting changes that will increase accessibility to gender affirming care, and reduce gatekeeping. Long-term, as this version is adopted

Trans Parent Day

November 6th was Trans Parent Day, a day first established in 2009 to celebrate and honour transgender parents, in addition to (or in place of) traditional Mother’s or Father’s Day, this day also includes parents who have transgender children.

Pflag volunteers asked Amanda Jetté Knox what Trans Parent Day means to them as a Canadian nonbinary best-selling author who is also a Trans Parent and tells a powerful story of love and acceptance when their child and their spouse transitioned. More recently they also came out as nonbinary themselves.

"Trans Parent Day is an important step in recognizing that both trans people and life outside the binary are normal parts of parenting. Celebrating the act of parenting, rather than specific roles, highlights the actions parents take rather than their gender. No matter who we are, the goal is to love our children unconditionally and support them in being the best version of themselves."

~ Amanda Jetté Knox, (@MavenOfMayhem on Twitter)

For more on Amanda's book Love Lives Here: A Story of Thriving in a Transgender Family here is a book review written by Pflag Parent Giselle.

Books for Elementary Schools

A big thanks to Scarborough Toyota, who awarded Toronto Pflag $5000 through their charity program. We applied for funding to pay for a program to bring LGBTQ2S+ affirming books to Toronto elementary schools. We are thrilled that our proposal was selected and we will be able to move forward with this program! We are still in the early stages of planning, but if you are interested in volunteering with book distribution when we get to that stage, please email kathy@torontopflag.org. We may include books that feature trans kids, families with two moms or two dads, and the idea that it's okay to be different. In an era where some locales are banning books like these, we are excited to be able to increase access to such inclusive stories about love and acceptance.

Remembering our civic duty

October is municipal election month, we go to the polls on October 24, and advance polls are already open! There are several issues that are important to the health, well-being, and prosperity of the Toronto LGBTQ2S+ community. If you're a parent, partner, or family member of a queer community member, please talk to your candidates and keep these issues in mind as you make your voting decision.

Homelessness is rampant among LGBTQ2S+ youth. especially those, who are not accepted and supported by their parents, who make up 21% of the youth in shelters, and struggle to find shelter space where they feel safe and their identities respected; violence and harassment of queer youth in shelters is common. Housing affordability is also a major issue for the LGBTQ2S+ community, especially the trans community. A 2018 study found that 45% of trans respondents lived in unsafe or unstable housing, and 22% suffered housing discrimination. ("From Surviving to Thriving", Toronto Trans Coalition Project). Housing struggles for the trans community are exacerbated by employment barriers and lack of income security with the median income for the trans community being in the mid-20 thousands, unemployment rate of 17% and 40% in precarious work (same study). Access to gender affirming care is another issue for trans people with far too few resources, and long waiting lists, including for vulnerable trans youth. Finally, rising hate in Canada is leading to increased violence against the queer community; homophobic hate crimes in Canada were up 64% in 2021.

We would love to see these issues discussed during the upcoming municipal campaign. Let's discuss adding new housing options for queer youth, and training to increase cultural competence of staff around queer youth. Candidates could discuss employment programs for trans people and programs to promote the benefits of trans inclusion to Toronto employers. We'd love to see candidates talk about the need to have more physicians providing gender affirming care and the fact that training and support is available. Or perhaps the need for the city to fund a gender affirming clinic to reduce waiting lists. We also need candidates to have an open discuss about the increasing rise of homophobic and transphobic hate in media and on the streets, and how it can be combatted.

We'd also love to see more queer representation in municipal government, making it easier to achieve progress on our issues. Queer politicians often understand our issues "from the inside", from their own lived experience. Representation also matters, seeing members of our community working on council will make the LGBTQ2S+ community feel more included.

While queer representation would be beneficial, there are candidates for school boards in this election running on "anti-woke" platforms; they campaign against schools accepting and supporting LGBTQ2s+ students. To support your queer and trans loved ones, please stay well away from these regressive candidates.